The Truth Must REALLY Hurt!

Has anyone else wondered where the "True Dad Confessions" website went?

You know...the site where all of them men went to talk about their wives loose vaginas, how sucktastic parenthood is, how traumatized they are after seeing their wives give birth, etc.

What happened to that site???

True Mom Confessions is still up, but the Dad confessions have vanished completely!

The non-cynical side of me wants to believe that since these sites were originated by women, they possibly decided to re-focus their confession oriented websites toward their intended target audience- women.

The cynical side of me (which admittedly is larger than the non-cynical side), thinks the Dad confessions brought unwelcome truths into the lives of mothers and the site was taken down either as a punishment for what the men were posting or as a way to assuage the stress of moms who frequented the site.

I mean, as a CF person who observes mothers and has read my fare share of mommy crap on the internet, I realize that denial and avoidance is a HUGE part of life for many mothers. Denying that you might hate your kids and parenthood...denying that your husband liked you better before you had rugrats...denying you wouldn't go back and make different choices...avoiding and denying the fact that you probably were better off before you had a kid...etc..

Lots of denial and avoidance in mommyhood from what I see.

So they've accumulated all these things to deny and avoid and some bunch of bitter, yet truthful men come along and ruin everything with their damned confessions!

I mean, it's probably really hard to tell yourself and other women that "your vagina goes right back to normal after birth, I SWEAR!!" and then read a bunch of men (who've actually BEEN INSIDE A VAGINA AFTER BIRTH) say otherwise.

It's probably also hard to admit to yourself that letting your man witness your baby being expelled from your vag might not have been a "bonding experience" at all, but more like a traumatizing one which has rendered him with a bad case of erectile dysfunction.

These are harsh realizations and I just bet that seeing them in print from men who could have very well been their mates, caused the untimely demise of the True Dad Confessions.

What say you guys?




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