I just wanted to promote one of the best podcasts I've heard on urban radio…the Michael Baisden show.

This podcast is amazing because Michael Baisden keeps it honest with regard to having kids. He affirms the choice to remain childfree and specifically tells women to shun the pressure from men to have babies if they don't want them. He knows how prevalent it is for women to have children simply to please a man and strongly encourages against it.

Maybe this is a cultural thing but I have to be honest. As a Black woman, it is HARD to find Black men who identify with the notion of being permanently childfree. There are plenty of men who already have kids who are cool with not having any more but most of the childless Black men I have dated are not keen on staying that way. Sure, they find it "hot" when they meet a woman with no kids but when the conversation of having children arises, they make it wholly clear that any woman they would be with long-term would HAVE to bear their children. It isn't optional or up for debate. And maybe this is just MY lowly opinion but from my POV, a lot Black men see children as proof of their virility and masculinity, as well as a validation for their ego. Whether they take care of them or not is a whole other issue.

With that said though, Childfreedom is not a popular movement in ANY ethnic community so I'm not just calling Black people out here.

Statistically, no ethnic group has higher levels of childlessness or childfreedom than Caucasians. The most recent census information I could find states "White never-married women have childless levels more than twice as high as Black women. Regardless of marital status, Hispanic women had lower levels of childlessness than non-Hispanic women."

So it's safe to say that childfreedom is not as prevalent among Blacks or Hispanics as it is among Whites. That's why when I hear a Black man encouraging women to remain childfree in a public forum, I get ridiculously excited.

At one point in the show, he takes a call from a woman who says that while she loves her child, if she had it to do over, she would be childfree! Whew if I had a quarter for every time I heard that…

He addresses the double standard of this statement and lets the caller know that it's perfectly OK to feel that way. He also encourages parents not to pressure their daughters to have children. How awesome is that!

Overall, really a great podcast for all sexes and races to listen to.

Listen here.

Here we go again with Octo-Ho and these damn ninety eleven kids.

I am so sick of this ignorant ass shit. Just when I think the story will go away, I learn something new and so skullfuckingly disturbing that I have to blog about it.

Some jackass over at Radar Online gave this whacked out breeding slut a blog and then two seconds later we discover that the cops and CPS have been to her house repeatedly.

Here's the details on that...

Whittier police Officer Jason Zuhlke says they responded to the home to investigate claims Suleman was "neglecting" her children and to investigate their surroundings.

DCFS ultimately concluded the allegations were without basis, according to Zuhlke.

On August 10, police responded after being notified of an open door, and a possible burglary.

Police say they received more calls concerning Suleman's family at her Sunrise Drive home, the home where the children's grandparents live.

On January 9, 2008, a 911 call was placed from the home after one of Suleman's children was accidentally locked in a bathroom.

On October 27, 2008 Suleman called police when she couldn't find her 5 year old.

The child had followed Suleman's mother, who was going for a walk in the neighborhood.

Then, on January 23, 2009, just days before the octuplets were born, one of the children inadvertently called 911 from the home.

Seriously WHAT THE FUCK.

Oh and according to MSNBC the six little heathens at home are already jealous of their new siblings.

"The video portion of the blog, live as of 9 a.m. ET on March 3, shows Suleman struggling to speak as one of her older six kids bites her, pulls her hair and slaps her in the face. Suleman said her older children are already jealous of the octuplets. When a friend showed the kids a picture of their new siblings, 'they hit the picture,' Suleman said."

Wow this bitch is absurdly stupid. She's pretty much letting the world know that her older children pose a huge safety threat to the infants. And her kids are clearly fucked the fuck up. I can see them beating the hell out of those babies in my mind's eye. If they're unruly and unstable enough to commit violence on a photo, those infants are NOT SAFE.

UNGAWDAMNBELIEVABLE.

You know what else pisses me off? The fact that this lazy hag was sponging off disability for a back injury that didn't even leave her disabled enough not to get pregnant 63 times. Healthy enough to carry a hundred babies means you can get a goddamn job in my book!

My 48-year-old father, who did HARD labor at a job for 24 years AND coached HS basketball for 15 years needs a new hip (he had one replaced last year and now needs the other one done) and has been denied for disability repeatedly for the past 3 fucking years. My poor, sweet, hard-working, dad with the mismatched hips has been told by disability that he is "young enough to get a job with one good hip" while this bitch careens through life getting paid and pregnant over and over for being hit in the back?!

UGH!

Seriously that is so insulting to me. Really it's insulting to my dad and anyone else genuinely, seriously disabled who needs an income or an operation covered who can't get the fucking time of day from the disability system.

This bitch represents everything wrong in the whole damn universe doesn't she?!?!

I really think I despise her and there aren't many people I've never met that I despise...let's see...Tyra Banks for being a self-righteous judgy, prudish asshole on her stupid TV shows...Eddie Murphy for being a sorry deadbeat daddy assed motherfucker...Brangelina for being pontificating, smug, attention whoring, jerks...Gwyneth Paltrow for being a pretentious, entitled, snobbish windbag who says stupid shit like "my life is good because I'm not passive about it" and "I'm so hugely fortunate to be super fortunate!!!" BITCH SHUT UP PLEASE AND THANK YOU.....Chris Brown's punk ass for jet skiing and sporting a big baloney grin at Diddy's house and pretending like he didn't just beat a woman down 6 days ago....Michael Vick for being a vicious dog murderer...hmmm that's all I can think off at the moment.

I think I honestly just hate people. Ugh.

Pass me a kitten or a bunny rabbit or something and keep crazy ass fucked up people away from me.

Do my rants annoy anyone? Cause they're fun to write sorry.